I guess it's time to update this, as I no longer consider myself to be a sub...I have recently discovered My passion for the Dom side...I love to see a subs reaction to My every touch, be it sensual, sadistic or somewhere in between. All the while, knowing exactly what's going through her head. My years as a sub give Me a unique perspective into the workings of the submissive mind. This is not to say I no longer have any submissive desires, on occasion I still enjoy the sub role, but for right now, I am seeking a sub of My own. I guess the best description for Me now would be switch....perhaps there is a female switch looking for the same things? Tall, H/W proportioned, D&D free, very discreet and stuck in a sexless vanilla marriage. When passion leaves a relationship, we must look outside the relationship for what is lacking. That is why i'm here. Ask me anything Y/you want to know.