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SUBJECT: #107
REF. SESSION: #5359

TRAINING GOALS
  • Anal Training
  • Voice control
  • Pain Processing
  • Mental Bondage
  • Identity / Ego / Humility

BEHAVIORAL


RULE SET
  • 1.) Speech: Yes Sir, no Sir
  • 2.) No Self Reference
  • 3.) Ask to ask a question
  • 4.) Eye-line straight ahead
CONDUCT RATING: D1: - 3 ; + 3

DEMERIT TALLIES
  • 3 Demerits: Infractions rule #1
  • 3 Merits: Excellence in endurance
  • Demerits inscribed on right thigh, merits on the left thigh.

NOTES


TO REWARD: Orgasm, reduction in demerits, Responds well to 'good girl'

TO PUNISH: The cane

TO ORGASM: Penetration and clit stim works 50 - 60 % of the time

MARKING: Subject bruises easily, generalize trauma to help control marking

TRIGGERS: Left nipple = 'This girl is yours to use'

PHOBIAS: water, spiders and dark places
DIRECT ASSESSMENT


Q: What do you hope to accomplish here?
A: 'To gain the opportunity to improve, sir.'

GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS
  • Subject is stuck in a difficult behavioral pattern where sensual speech is mostly out of reach, esp. when being fucked.
  • Subject displays excellent endurance and motivation
  • Hates the clothespins: 'nothing fun about them.'
  • Frightened of the anal training, but surprised to find pleasure in the stretching.
  • Frustrated by her deficient dirty talking skills
  • Takes pride in the demerit inscriptions
  • Takes more pain if suffering for smeone else
SEXUAL ASSESSMENTS
Conducted by: Wolf Hudson

ORAL SKILLS
  • Poor deep throat
  • Good, tight lip contact with good suction
  • Good eye contact
  • Enthusiasm: 2 / 5
ANAL ASSESSMENT
  • Virgin - never done anal before TTOO
  • Measures taken: Began stretcing her ass with a small plug on Day One.
  • Reactions: did very well, little discomfort hardly felt it, can likely go larger right away
FUCKING
  • Flat expression, little emotive energy from her
  • Poor verbal delivery
ORGASM
  • Average energy, 2/5
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