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Log into your account, and click on "My Account" and then on "My Settings". There you can modify your:

* Name
* Email Address
* Password ( NOT LONGER THEN 8 CHARACTERS)
* Gender
* Location
* Email Notifications

You can go ahead and visit the log in page and click on the "Forgot Login" link and follow the directions. Your password will be emailed to you, be sure when you change your password to NOT make it longer then 8 characters.

Log into your account, and click on "My Account". Click on "Unregister".

Some ISP's will not automatically receive the BDSM-Life confirmation email. Some will even deliver it in to your Spam/Trash/Bulk mail folder. If you still have difficulties please sent an email to admin@bdsm-life.com

The only way to find members is by age, land or orientation. To find people in your area you can subscribe to one of the groups under locations.

You would need to “enable cookies” in your browser’s preferences, which tells the server that you returned to that Web page.

Log into your account, and then click on "My Settings". Click on "Customize profile". You can change the look of your page by modifying the colors in the background or add a background image. read more about this in the news section on the frontpage.

Log into your account and click on the picture. click on submit or on "add more photo's" to upload them.You can upload up to 1000 photo's

Make sure your photo's are not bigger then 340 x 340 pixels

To change your main profile picture, click on "My Profile" and then on "Profile Pictures". Click the picture you want as the main picture and click on "Make Primary".

Go to you account and click on the picture. Then choose "new album", give it a name and upload you picture. To make a private album, click on the tab private album. You can make 20 albums with 50 photo's each.

We don't allow picture with children or animal sex. They will be deleted with out prior notice. If you picture is to big and shows as white, we will delete it as well.

All images are cached to reduce the load and traffic on the server. Clear your browser's cache or hit CTRL+F5 and you will see the new image.

If the response you get is an error the most probable cause is that you've uploaded an unsupported file format(use .GIF, .JPG or .PNG only). If you get a black image it means that your file had errors in it. Try converting the image into another format and upload it again and make sure the photo is not bigger then 340 x 340 pixels.

A. Follow Moderators instructions.
From time to time a Moderator might give you an instruction or request to help maintain the sites proper running. If you argue you will only make it worse, please follow what is requested of you.

B. No flooding or unnecessary repetition.
Flooding is the repeated posting of the same message or text. It also includes posting of nonsense text that disrupts the chat. This makes it hard for other chatters to continue their conversation and will not be tolerated in the chat room.

C. No fighting or name calling.
Arguments that get out of hand or fighting will not be tolerated and MODS will remove problem people from the chat rooms regardless of who started it. Likewise if someone wants to be left alone then leave them alone.

D. No Cybering in public.
Not everyone likes to hear about it, so if you must do it, keep your messages private or stick to the private rooms. Requesting a "cyber" meeting is also not allowed and you may be removed from the room.

E. No Spamming.
Solicitations are not encouraged nor accepted and strict action will be taken against all those who violate the site's T.O.S. on Spam.

F. No racist or prejudice slurs.
Racism and prejudice of any kind will not be tolerated. Such behavior only makes you look small minded.

G. Suspicious activity will not be tolerated.
Any suspicious activities relating to the exploitation of chat users, report it to a mod or admin immediately.

H. No typing all in CAPS.
Typing all in CAPS or capitals is considered shouting and as such should rarely be used. Typing whole lines in CAPS is considered rude.

I. No posting of private contact details.
Private contact details are not to be posted publicly within the rooms or other services of this site. This rule is in place to protect the innocent from personal risk by others.

J. No illegal activity, as per real life.
Any activities on this site that are illegal in your own country or state are not allowed. Please be mindful of this as such activities within this site can be provided as transcripts to authorities as required.

K. We reserve the right to ban any member without notice or reason
PERMANENT server bans will be placed to users who attempt to exploit/hack our adult chat rooms.

L. No Links
Posting links are not allowed to protect our members from spyware and phishing sites. If you want to share your link with the chat room, ask the MODS for permission.

M. BE CAREFUL TO FOLLOW THE RULES...
These rules will be strictly maintained and your removal from this site may be permanent if you continue to break the chat room rules.

Click on the members name and their information will show up in the Chat Dock. You may click BLOCK and all chat’s sent by that member will not come through to you.

Make sure that you have the current version of Adobe Flash Player installed. You can do so by visiting http://www.adobe.com/products/flashplayer/

You can enable cookies in your Internet Preferences to remember your login to prevent further interruption.

Make sure that you have the current version of Adobe Flash Player

You would need to disable pop-ups from your Internet Browsers preferences.

There is a BLOCK button on the Instant Messenger itself so you can just click on it to prevent messages being sent from that member.

The only way to ensure the safety of your photos would be not to place them on the Internet but if you find someone on this site with your pictures then use our DMCA notice.

Once a member contacts you, you can select to block any form of communication by the member in the body of the message. Simply click on the BLOCK button.

Go to the profile and click on report and fill in the form.

Please send an email with your contact information, the company you work for, and a brief description of your project to: CONTACT US, located at the top of any page.

Please send an email with your contact and company information to CONTACT US,Located at the top of any page.

Click on "Yourtube" and then on "Search", search for the name of the video and when it appears click on the heart in the upper right corner of the movie to add it.

Make sure you have the latest version of Java. You can download the latest version on http://java.com/en/download/windows_xpi.jsp

Make sure when you change your password, the password is not longer then 8 characters.

Only visitors of your profile can see your friends. To see your own friends, click on "Members" in the navigationbar and then on "Friends"

After you confirmed your email, you have to change your password. Make sure you don't make the password longer then 8 characters. If you did, click on "forgot password" and change it again.

Click on "My Account" and then on "My contacts". There you can see all the details of who viewed you and more.