Whenever I correspond with both dominant and submissive women I'm often asked how I first became aware of my submissive nature. My answer: it's always been there - even as a child. Offering my submission and obedience to women is as much a part of who I am as the air I breath and I don't want it to go away. I was born this way and love it. I believe that a submissive man should be obedient to his partner - simple as that. She's in charge and she's the boss. I am a service-oriented male who is seeking a harmonious relationship with a Dominant Woman who desires me to become her personal property. To me, the point of being subservient to a Woman is in part to exercise the deep need I have for obedience to feminine authority and to be moulded into whatever My Mistress desires me to become. As a 38 year old naturally submissive male of European/Asian descent I enjoy receiving Bastinado. This punishment has, at various times, been used in China, parts of Africa, SE Asia and even in Europe, within the South Western Balkan regions - Bulgaria, Serbia, etc. Bastinado is a very common form of punishment in the Middle East where it is known as Falaka. In parts of SE Asia, Malaysia, etc., and the Middle East it is also utilized as a form of Corporal Punishment in Schools as well as by parents. It's use in schools is convenient in that it can be employed on both male and female students, in lieu of other forms of corporal punishment which is considered inappropriate for female students - such as caning of the buttocks. Bastinado used on students is not as harsh as that used on adults, in that only a long ruler is used to firmly slap the soles of the feet. The most painful Bastinado I've ever received is from a former partner who made me stand on ice for 10 minutes, after which she gave me 25 strokes on my soles with a leather strap. The pain was EQUISITE!!! Although, it was impossible for me to walk for the first hour or so, not only did I have the greatest sexual arousal ever but I felt incredibly submissive towards my partner, and, my respect for her tripled. I also enjoy Bondage, Caging, Caning, Chastity/sexual control, Cock/ball torture, Collars, Domestic servitude, Electricity play, Figging, Foot worship, Forced masturbation, Flogging, Gags, Humiliation, Ice Dildo play, Leather/PVC/Rubber, Medical play including enemas, Objectification, Role play, Shackles/chains, Shoe/boot worship, SM play, Shoe/boot worship, Sub/dom play, Uniforms, Watersports, 24/7 D/s. My submissiveness is a fundamental part of my personality, sexuality and who I am. I have learned a lot about myself over the years through play and the people who enjoyed testing my limits and humiliation. I have a high pain threshold so my limits need to be tested. Presently, I'm single, no ties and willing to travel anywhere daytime or evenings. I have experience serving as a slave at parties, etc. At one such party where I served as a slave, a number of ordinary bathroom tiles were heated in an conventional oven for approximately 20 minutes, the tiles were then placed on the floor which was covered with 3 layers of foil paper. I was then ordered by my Mistress to step on the hot tiles and was forced to dance barefoot on the hot tiles for the amusement of my Mistress' guests. My Mistress and her guests found the sight of me jumping up and down whilst screaming with pain absolutely hysterical, although it was 3 days before I could walk properly. I'm looking for dominant females or couples. I can be contacted via email at ;- bastinadolover@live.com If you would like to know more about me and my experiences then please feel free to email me. Tentatively waiting for you to contact me.